Mikey's Story
written by mom Kathi
Michael, or as we call him, "Mikey", was born
April 29, 2004 via planned c-section. Although he was breech, he was
apparently healthy weighing 8 pounds and measuring 20 inches long. He came
home from the hospital three days later.
In June of 2005, Mikey was diagnosed with Mitochondrial Disease. This is a
degenerative disease where cells fail to generate the energy needed to
sustain life and growth. As a result, children and adults who have this
disease experience a vast array of symptoms.
Mikey may look and appear physically normal, but this disease can affect him
hour by hour, day by day, week by week, or month by month. His symptoms
include; global developmental delays, hypotonia (weak muscles/low tone),
swallowing difficulties, silent aspiration, reflux, digestive and
constipation issues, fatigue, sleep apnea, eczema, asthma, and
laryngomalacia. He also has growth hormone deficiency. The disease limits
his energy production and hinders his metabolism weakening his muscles and
digestive system.
Our journey began when Mikey was 6 weeks old. We noticed he wasn’t
gaining weight, sleeping all the time, and taking a long time to finish his
bottle. He would fall asleep after taking an ounce of formula. He seemed to
be uncomfortable and made loud noises while feeding and
sleeping. We had to set a timer to know when it was time for his next
feeding because he never cried for a bottle. We were sent to a
Gastroenterologist who initially had us increase his calorie intake. To make
things worse Mikey was severely constipated. There were several times he had
to be disimpacted. We also went to see a neurologist because Mikey seemed
very floppy. When you picked him up he was like a rag doll.
He didn’t sit up on his own until he was 10 months old. Every week we
were at the doctor’s office for weight checks or something else going on.
He was tested for Cystic Fibrosis, Hirsprungs Disease, an Immune Deficiency,
and too many other things to keep track of. He has had his blood drawn so
much that we stopped counting. Some of the tests he had done included MRIs,
ultrasounds, x-rays, EKG’s, biopsies, and 3 surgeries that required
anesthesia and hospital admissions. We were dealing with so many health
issues, and with few answers doctors started referring to Mikey as the
"Mystery Boy".
At 9 months, Mikey was first diagnosed with Laryngomalacia. The test showed
he was aspirating and having a hard time swallowing thin liquids, so the
plan was to thicken his formula. Unfortunately he still wasn‘t doing well.
We heard many good things about The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia
(CHOP), and decided to take Mikey there. In February of 2005 the doctors
placed a NG tube in Mikey's nose because of his aspiration.
Due to a life threatening incident where he inhaled the tube and turned
blue, we decided it would be best for Mikey to get a G-tube placed in his
stomach, and also have a muscle biopsy to determine if he could have some
type of Mitochondrial Disease. He was admitted back to CHOP in April 2005
for Failure To Thrive because he was only weighing 12lbs. We were thankful
to be home for his first birthday.
People who see Mikey have difficulty realizing that there is anything wrong
with him. While he does look and act like a “normal” child, he still has a
lot of issues. It is only through the regiment of his treatment to keep him
doing as well as he is. Mikey takes a total of 15 medicines each day (not
all at once). He also gets growth hormone injections every night. He
receives Early Intervention services everyday.
He is significantly delayed in his speech, he understands what we say.
Mikey wears orthotics. He began walking without assistance at 21 months.
When he is having one of his good days he is always on the go, but he
requires constant care because he tends to fall and injure himself due to
his body awareness. He wears a helmet to prevent visits to the emergency
room. He has had stitches four times within six months. We are working with
a Neurologist to determine if he suffers from small seizures.
With the help of his Feeding Therapist, we modify food or feeding position.
We have to pace his feedings allowing him to suck, swallow, and breathe. The
therapist completes a series of exercises to be ensure his oral mechanisms
gets stronger and he does not become orally defensive which is a concern for
children who do not eat by mouth. She also observes signs of aspiration
which can put Mikey's health at risk. It is so sad when he is reaching for
our drinks and he cannot have it because they are too thin for him to
handle. We are very fortunate that Mikey is able to eat, but for some reason
he can only digest and absorb small quantities of food which is why he
requires his primary nutrition his G-tube. He is fed through his G-tube two
times a day and continuously at night. Mikey has been on 5 different
formulas. We are watching his milk intake due to his eczema and constipation
issues and have seen some improvements.
After a year and a half of continued treatment, he has come from being in the
5th percentile to being in the 40th percentile. He has gained a total of 15
pounds. However Mikey’s health issues still impair his ability to a do lot
of things. He will continue to see doctors and take medicine throughout his
life in order for him to keep improving. He has been through so much at a
very young age. He works hard with all of his therapists and has been doing
much better going to the doctors and taking his medicines. Just recently he
had his tonsils/adenoids removed to see if it can help with his sleep apnea
because he had difficulty wearing the CPAP mask. At the same time of this
procedure he had his ear tubes replaced, another muscle biopsy to determine
the complex of his disorder, a colonoscopy and an endoscopy. He was admitted
to the PICU for precautions. We are scheduled for another swallow test in
March of 2007.
He will also have a colmic manometry. We are looking forward to Mikey
starting the Special Education Preschool Program at the elementary school in
our town. He’s considered to have a multi-level diagnosis because he has
lots of medical problems and needs. All his developmental issues are just a
wait and see kind of thing.
Everyday Mikey faces new challenges with incredible dignity. He is a
delightful child with a unique personality. He makes us smile each day.
Most of the times he is extremely happy and has no trouble showing it. He
plays like any other child but tends to get tired quicker. He is literally
like a "light switch". He could have tons of energy at one moment, and
within a few seconds he is sound asleep. There are still many things we
don't yet understand about Mikey. Most of the time we take it day by day and
focus on what is happening right now because he tends to get sick a lot and
we don’t really know what is causing him to be sick.
We are very thankful that Mikey can be treated at home in New Jersey with
his mom, dad, big sister, 2 dogs, and cat. He has loving grandparents, 2
great-grandmothers, aunts, uncles, and 5 cousins who just adore him. We have
been very satisfied with Mikey’s overall improvements and know he will do
well because he is truly a fighter. It makes us happy that we were
chosen to be parents of this special child. We enjoy every minute we can
because life can change in an instant.
Abilities:
See: Yes.
Hear: Yes, has tubes in his ears.
Talk: Not yet, he uses facial expressions, verbal sounds and signs.
Walk: Yes.
Read: Not yet, but likes looking at picture books.
Use hands: Yes.
Siblings:
sister Gabriella, age 5
Child's Interests:
Mikey likes playing with his fire trucks, school buses, trains, airplanes,
motorcycles and cars. He likes to stack blocks and watch TV. We call him
"Mike TV". He likes to color - especially on the furniture (LOL). He is our
little Spiderman because every time you see him, he is climbing on
something.
Sibling's Interests:
Gabi likes Dore the Explorer, Diego, Caillou and The Little Mermaid. She
likes to takes things and role play. She enjoys arts & crafts and learning
how to read. She also likes animals, mostly dogs.
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