"Angel" Marissa |
Chandler | Alacin
NOTE FROM THE MACS STAFF
Marissa's story has NOT been updated yet since she passed away on May 22nd, 2007. We will update the end of her story as soon as we receive more information from her family.
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Marissa's Story
written by mom Jennifer
My husband Charles and I had always wanted
a child. We had endured the pain of 2 second trimester miscarriages and
began to wonder if it would ever happen for us. Needless to say, we were
elated when we found out that we were expecting a baby girl. Due to my
"high-risk status" (hx of miscarriages, gestational diabetes, single
umbilical artery), I was followed closely by my OB doctor. At 38 weeks, my
blood pressure began a steady rise, and the decision was made to induce my
labor. At 8:07 PM on January 7, 2002, after 12+ hours of labor and "failure
to progress", our beautiful 10 lb., 1 oz. baby girl was delivered via
C-Section. I cannot begin to put into words the joy she has brought into our
lives!
We had been told prior to her birth that our baby could have blood sugar
problems with her levels dropping to a dangerous level upon delivery.
Marissa was immediately taken from the delivery area where attempts to feed
her and start an IV were not successful. We were then told that she needed
to be transferred to a Special Care Nursery (NICU) in Delaware. They wheeled
her in to my room so I could catch a quick glimpse of her again before she
was taken to the other hospital. I remained in the Maryland hospital until
lunch time on the 9th when I convinced my doctors that I was well enough for
discharge. I wanted to see and actually hold our baby girl!
Marissa's blood sugar issue resolved rather quickly, however on her third
day of life, she spiked a high fever. After many tests it was determined
that she had an urinary tract infection, and she was treated with IV
antibiotics. While in the NICU, Marissa was seen by Dr. Figueroa, a
Pediatric Urologist who recommended that Marissa have a cystoscopy to
determine possible causes for the infection. Our little girl was then taken
to the AI duPont Hospital for Children in Wilmington, Delaware and had this
test under general anesthesia at only 9 days old.
This was the first of many procedures, as we learned that Marissa had severe
abnormalities in her urinary tract system, including two tiny bladders, two
urethras, abnormal kidneys which were poorly formed and had multiple cysts.
Marissa endured many corrective urological surgeries (bilateral ureteral
reimplantation at 11 months old; multiple bladder augmentation surgeries;
Mitrofanoff procedure, etc.) to minimize UTIs and to prolong the life of her
kidneys.
Marissa spent many days/weeks in the hospital recovering from infections,
surgeries, etc. Any illness which involved diarrhea or vomiting would put
her in crisis and require hospitalization to prevent dehydration. She also
developed a blockage which required a nephrostomy tube and meant she wore an
external urine drainage bag for several weeks.
Marissa has been such a strong happy child through all of this...so
easy-going and accepting of all of her medical issues. She and I made many
friends with nurses and other staff and patients on 3CSouth at AI duPont.
Her brother Justin was born the morning after we left the hospital after a
two week stay.
In September of 2005, we made the decision to move to Virginia to be closer
to my parents who have been so supportive of Marissa and our family. (On
many occasions, they dropped everything and drove 6 hours to be with us at
the hospital and to spend time with Marissa). This move was such a huge leap
of faith for us. We had been so happy with the care from the Urologists and
Nephrologists at AI duPont, and knew it would be a challenge to find a whole
new team of physicians.
Immediately upon relocating to Virginia, we scheduled an appointment at the
UVA Children's Hospital. Marissa had been followed closely by the team of
nephrologists there. We knew that "one day" Marissa would need a kidney
transplant, however we had hoped that it would be later in life. Marissa's
creatine levels and BUN continued to rise, and her kidney function dropped
below 10% of normal. We were then able to complete all of the tests
necessary to place her on the National Waiting List. Marissa was placed on
the list in April 2006, and we have been told that most children her
age/prognosis will get their kidney within a year.
Our hope was to avoid dialysis completely and go straight to transplant. We
struggled with the concept that Marissa's health had declined to the point
that she may not be able to live without dialysis. She would go days without
eating, and wanted to sleep all of the time due to the kidney failure.
Marissa had surgery October 3, 2006 to have a PD Catheter inserted, a
Feeding tube inserted, and a port-a-cath placed to allow for blood draws/IVs
as needed. She began to have 10 hours of dialysis at home each night as she
would sleep. Initially the dialysis didn't work very well, and she required
another surgery to remove omentum (fatty tissue) which was clogging the
catheter. We are so thankful that this type of dialysis is now working.
Hemodialysis would have required our family to travel 5 hours roundtrip 3
days per week, and would have required Marissa to undergo dialysis in the
clinic at UVA.
Marissa is doing pretty well now. Dialysis and g-tube feedings have become a
"normal part of our bedtime routine" for now. She is accepting (and even
proud) of her "tubies" which are a temporary addition to her little body.
She is such a trooper. She understands that she's getting a "new kidney" and
will have to have a "big surgery" when the doctors find a "new kidney" for
her.
We're just taking one day at a time and hope and pray that a type O kidney
becomes available for her soon. Marissa is a true testimony to those who
know her. We know God has great plans for her future!