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Heather's Story
written by mom Denae |
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Heather Riley (we call her Ri sometimes) was born at 34 weeks and was a
perfect little baby. Tiny, but perfect. By 5 months old, she had been in the
hospital many times for respiratory distress. Finally they discovered the
culprit was laryngomalacia, asthma, and reflux. Once she was on medicine for
the asthma and reflux, she was back to being perfect.
Her development was always slow, but no one ever expressed any concern. I
was told many times at her check-ups, that she was the youngest in a large
family, so we needed to make sure that she was not being "babied." She did
not sit up until almost 9 months old, she took her first steps at 23 months.
She did not talk at all until just before her third birthday thanks to
extensive speech therapy.
In July of 2001, she had her first seizure and our happy universe crumbled.
The first seizure occurred at daycare, I was told that day that she couldn't
come back until she had seen her doctor. They also told me at that time,
they were very concerned about her development in general. She was almost 2
years old and was not doing any of the things that the other kids her age
were doing. I was devastated. We went to see her primary care doctor and
left with a referral to see a neurologist.
December 29th, 2001 she was diagnosed with epilepsy and global developmental
delay. We had a few years where life was quiet, Heather Ri had therapy
several times a week. She was making progress. Then in 2005 everything
changed. The little bit of seizure control was gone. After many medications
failed to control the seizures that were obviously holding her development
back, she was evaluated for a Vagus Nerve Stimulator (VNS). It was during
that evaluation period, that I was told she had childhood epileptic
encephalopathy, a devastating form of epilepsy. With even less hope of ever
having seizure control we agreed to try the VNS.
Dr. Heafner implanted the VNS in February of 2006. It has helped a little
bit. She did seem "brighter" and more with it after the VNS was turned on. I
have mixed feelings about the VNS, sometimes we are able to stop a seizure
with the magnet, other times it does nothing. Heather's seizures remain
uncontrolled.
In January 2008, she started the Ketogenic diet since all the medications
and one surgery had failed to give her acceptable control. I believe she may
have become seizure free on the diet, but it was impossible for her to
continue. She was refusing to eat, and never drank enough. Eating has always
been a battle for Ri. We had to stop, the all day screaming and obvious
misery was not worth any amount of seizure control. It was at this point, in
March 08, that Dr. Parrott had us come in to talk about what to do next. We
had two options:
1. Surgical evaluation (which would likely lead to a corpus callosotomy)
2. Try another drug, Felbatol.
We chose the Felbatol. By that point, she had already had several VEEG's
(Video Electroencephalogram) and they all told us the same story
"Generalized Slowing, multifocal spikes (frontal and temporal lobes, more on
the left than on the right)". Felbatol is a drug that is only given when
everything else has failed and the benefits outweigh the risks.
We took that chance. By May 08, she was on high doses of 3 seizure meds,
plus the Felbatol. We went to Dr. Parrott with some concerns as we were
weaning the Zonegran. So he scheduled her for another VEEG. During this VEEG
we took her off of everything except the Felbatol. Felbatol was increased
and she was put back on a short course of Klonopin.
We came home with a different child. She wasn't having half of the seizures
she had been before. It was amazing to see, our lives for that short period
were as normal as they had ever been. Heather Riley has three older sisters,
we were able to co camping and go with Nana on the boat. It was amazing, we
hadn't been happier in a long time. I was in love with Felbatol. This lasted
for almost 3 months before the world came crashing down again.
Starting in August, she was having a life threatening seizure activity
called Status Epilepticus, both convulsive and non convulsive. Not only
this, but after those seizures she would be in what was called Postictal
Encephalopathy. During this time, her breathing would become erratic, her
heart rate would become dangerously low (down to 20bpm and stopped twice)
this would last for hours to several days after the seizures. The only way
to know if she was in this postictal state or again in nonconvulsive status,
was to have an EEG. She would be hooked up to the EEG for days at a time
waiting for her to wake up on her own. This was happening every 7 to 10 days
from August of 2008 until March of 2009.
During these months, they added more meds, changed her VNS settings, but
nothing seemed to matter. We were watching the seizures take our Heather
away. She started to regress and her already challenging behavior was even
worse. She stopped eating and drinking and was completely dependent on a
g-tube for her nutrition.
A few days before Christmas, she had a cluster of tonic seizures on the
stairs. She aspirated and we didn't know at the time. The night before
Christmas, she had almost constant tonic seizures, we gave her an ativan and
the seizures seemed to stop. Christmas morning she woke Robert and I up with
the sound of gasping for breath, I checked her temp because she just didn't
look right, she had a temperature of 108.
Christmas morning, instead of opening her gifts from Santa, and spending
what is likely to be the last Christmas her Poppi lived to see, was spent on
the critical care transport ambulance being sent to Levine Children's from
our home in Lexington. We were terrified, she spent the next several days in
the hospital recovering. At first, they didn't know what was wrong,
thankfully the x-ray confirmed it was aspiration pneumonia and not one of
the many other infections that they had thought she may have.
This was when her neurologist, Dr. Parrott, told us that there wasn't
anything else they could do, she has failed every medication available as
well as combinations. The VNS isn't helping enough, the Ketogenic Diet
failed and then we were only left with surgery, even that wouldn't stop all
of her seizures. The seizures seem to come in cycles now. At this moment she
is still having seizures, but they are not as bad as they were a few months
ago. Her VNS was just set to a rapid cycle and she is on 5 anti-seizure
medications.
She was granted a wish by the Make-A-Wish Foundation this Spring and our
family spent a week of wonder at Give Kids The World and the Disney parks.
We wake up each morning and pray for a good day, thank God when she has one,
and pray harder when she doesn't. Heather is a beautiful happy little girl
who makes everyone around her smile.
(Story last updated July, 2009 - Interests last updated
Apr, 2010)
Disabilities: (
If child has any physical limitations)
none
Child's Interests:
Heather is developmentally at a 4-year-old level. She loves elephants,
really really loves elephants. She also likes Ni Hao Kai-Lan, Yo Gabba Gabba,
Wow, Wow Wubbzy, Mickey Mouse club house. She loves Nick Jr.. Pluto is her hero. She is a girly girl, she loves pink and purple.
She is just starting to enjoy Barbie dolls. She loves to have her own money
to spend, going to the dollar store with a dollar is a treat for her. She
loves to "write" in a journal. Heather loves anything Princess.
Siblings:
sister Victoria, old
sister Sarah, old
sister Brittany, old
Sibling's Interests:
Victoria loves horses and collects rubber ducks. She is a girly girl.
Sarah likes crafts and loves to make Diorama's. She enjoys playing video
games, music and playing on the computer. She also likes to read and loves
the Twilight series.
Brittany loves Webkinz, collects beavers, plays volleyball and likes things
associated with it. She likes to read adventure books.
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(these Updates are a Summary of the past 3 months)